Definition of coy

The word "coy" has its origins in the 14th century, derived from the Old French word "coi," which was pronounced similarly to the modern English word "quy." The Old French "coi" was a borrowing from the Latin word "coetus," meaning "a meeting" or "a gathering." In the English language, the word "coy" initially referred to a gathering or meeting of people, often with a sense of secrecy or exclusivity. Over time, the meaning of "coy" shifted to describe someone or something that is shy, reserved, or reluctant to show affection or interest. This sense of "coy" likely arose from the idea that someone who is coy might be hesitant to gather or converge with others, but instead keeps their distance or hides their true feelings. Today, "coy" is often used to describe someone or something that is subtly charming, flirtatious, or playful, but also unsure or hesitant to commit or reveal their true intentions.